i'm married

Dua situasi yang hampir2 sama.

SITUASI PERTAMA :

seorang gadis sedang duduk di dalam sebuah bas, menunggu untuk bergerak meninggalkan ibu kota. pulang ke kampung halaman untuk bercuti bersama keluarga tercinta. di sebelahnya adalah seorang lelaki warga asing yang boleh berbahasa melayu. maka bermulalah perbualan di antara keduanya (peramah la pulak encik sebelah nih). . .

lelaki : mau pulang kampung di johor ka? 

perempuan : haah. tapi tak sampai jb betul la. berhenti kat satu tempat perhentian. nama tempat tu    y*** p***. emm nak pegi jb ke?

lelaki : ooo haah. pegi rumah kawan saya. cuti kan. kat kl blaja lagi ka?

perempuan : haah belaja lagi. 

lelaki : ooo cuti ha balik jumpa family.

perempuan : haah dah lama tak balik. *senyum selebar mungkin sbb taktau nak respon apa lagi.

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lelaki : sudah kahwin? *sambil melihat ke arah jari kanan perempuan tersebut. ada cincin.

perempuan : *tanpa berfikir panjang. haah sudah. suami ada kat kampung jugak. ni balik nak jumpa suami la. (amboi laju la pulak bercerita)

lelaki : ooo betulla saya teka. memang suda kahwin. anak suda berapa?

perempuan : *adoi anak pulak?. ha anak baru satu. kecik lagi. tinggal dgn suami saya. hehe.. *sambil ketawa yg dibuat-buat .

lelaki : oooo rindu sama anak ya. 

perempuan : haah. *oke senyum then buat-buat tido. -_-

SITUASI KEDUA :

keadaan di Terminal Bersepadu Selatan lengang. kelihatan beberapa orang sedang duduk menunggu ketibaan bas masing-masing. seorang gadis baru sampai di lobi berlepas setelah mendapat tiket untuk pulang ke kampung. setelah beberapa minit duduk, seorang lelaki separuh umur (pakcik yg juga berbangsa asing) menegurnya. ikuti perbualan mereka . . .

pakcik : balik ke mana?

gadis : johor, pakcik?

pakcik : owh sama la. bas nya jam berapa?

gadis : jam 12 tengahari. sama agaknya. tiket pun nampak sama.

pakcik : iya lah agaknya. cuti ya? kerja ka kat sini?

gadis : haah cuti. eh takla, saya belaja lagi.

pakcik : owh... balik kampung jumpa suami ya? *sambil mata melihat ke arah jari kanan gadis tersebut. ada cincin.

gadis : *terkedu. errr haah. *terus senyum. senyum.

pakcik : ya iyalah. kesian suaminya lama tidak jumpa kan.

gadis : haah. *oke terus senyum sambil bukak beg mencari sesuatu. -_-

dah. dah. korang mesti dah agak kan sapa perempuan dan gadis dlm kedua-dua situasi tu. dua-dua adalah orang yang sama. dan orang itu adalah AKU. T___T

oke dua sebab kenapa orang tengok aku ni macam married women adalah :

-->  muke aku yang sememangnya matured macam orang umo 27 tahun. orang selalu kata aku kakak sulong.

--> aku pakai cincin yang kalo nampak memang orang kata tu cincin kawen. 

This is the ring. tapi blur sikit gamba nih. kalo tengok yang betul, ada macam berlian la yang putih-putih tu. then ditambah pulak cincin ni aku pakai kat jari belah kanan. memang jari khas utk orang kawen la kan. so i'm married! -_-

but for me, if yang tanya tu lelaki memang akan diiyakan jela. its for my own safety. at least they have respect for a married women. but if yang tanya tu perempuan, akan diterangkan dengan jelas la yang SAYE BELOM KAWEN LAGI. huahuahuahau~

kepada yang nak rasa dah kawen, sila la pakai cincin dan buat ekspresi muke orang yang dah matured. believe me! its really work~

p/s : saya tak berniat nak tipu. mereka yang salah faham. sila maafkan saya. @_@

 

one of my BFF~

its raining. its still raining. and as usual, i don't know what to do ~ at my "office". 

the only thing i have now are only my phone (yang dah ngok ngek tu) and my precious blue lappy. so my lappy, let me use you oke. 

with limited resource to entertain myself, so buat la entry ni. nak bagi banyak entry sbnrnye. al maklumla baru stat blogging semula. hehe...

so this entry is specially dedicated to one of my BFF - mamat laa. BEST FRIEND FOREVER. not boyfriend forever oke. hahaha sorry~

this is him~

-digunakan utk tujuan blogging semata2. tidak disimpan @ dimandrem.-

ermm before that, can i use malay language?? please, please......... oke thank u! ;p

hehe senang sikit nak kutuk/puji/marah mamat nih. oke firstly, kami start kenal waktu form 4 kat sekolah menengah je sebenarnya. tapi aku rasa dah macam kenal dari dalam perut mak masing2 je. serius! dengan kawan lelaki lain yang satu tadika pon aku tak rapat sangat. so aku sangat berterima kasih pada Allah sebab bagi kawan baik cam mamat nih. walaupun dia cam gila2 tp kawan aku nih banyak bagi sokongan kat aku. kalau ada apa2 aku selalu gak la story kat dia. luahlah apa pun, dia tetap dengar. so memang jadi pendengar setia aku la & banyak bagi kata2 semangat kat aku. aku pon kadang2 banyak pemikiran tak rasional dan selalu fikir negatif. so he make me view the things from the bright side. i also learn many new things from him. semangat! dia ni la yang bagi lagu Ya Sudahlah tu. ^__^

insyaAllah aku bakal jadi kaunselor but i still need someone that can be my counsellor. so right now, he is one of my best counsellor and i hope he can always be my best counsellor. harap jugak yang aku tak membebankan dia bila aku cerita masalah-masalah aku tu. hoho...

ucapan untuk mamat : semoga kau selalu happy dan dipermudahkan segala urusan oleh Allah. always be happy so that you can help me to be happy. ^_____^

p/s : oke level of shyness semakin meningkat. keh3....

how to have better understanding through communication~

8 RULES OF RESPECTFUL COMMUNICATION

1 ~ If you have a problem with me, come to me privately.

2 ~ If I have a problem with you, I'll come to you privately.

3 ~ If someone has a problem with me and comes to you, send them to me (I'll do the same for you). If that someone will not come to me, say, "Let's go together; I'm sure he/she will see us about this."

4 ~ Be careful on how you interpret me - let me do that for you. On matters that unclear, do not feel pressured to interpret my feelings and thoughts. It's easy to misrepresent intentions, so please ask me to clarify.

5 ~ I will be careful on how I interpret you.

6 ~ If it's confidential, don't tell me. If anyone comes to me in confidence, I won't tell unless the person is going to harm him/herself, or physically harm someone else, or a child has been (or is in danger) being abused. I expect the same from you.

7 ~ I do not manipulate; I will not be manipulated; don't let others manipulate you; don't let others manipulate me through you.

8 ~ When in doubt, just ask. If I can answer without breaking a confidence, I will.

(Adapted from : Charles Christian)

sekadar gambar hiasan.

^___^

are you an apple or a banana?

Some motivational story :


You must learn that you cannot be loved by all people - sorry.
Let's say, you are an APPLE . . .

You can be the finest apple in the world wide world - ripe, juicy, sweet, and succulent -
and offer yourself to all.
But . . . . . . . . .

There will always be people who do not like apples!
They don't value the fact that you are the finest apple in the whole world!
So then you have the choice of becoming their favourite fruit, let's say,
a BANANA . . . . . . .

True, you do have that choice if you are prepared to change quite considerably, but you must be warned that if you do choose to become a banana, you will always be a second rate banana because that is not what you were made for.

On the other hand, you could always remain the finest apple. Hmmmm . . . . . . .

You should also realize that if you do choose to become a banana, there will always be people who 

do not like bananas!

So you could spend your whole life trying to become a second-rate banana, or you can remain

THE WORLD'S FINEST APPLE . . . .

God has done a wonderful job making you unique - there is no one else like you!

so, be grateful and be yourself!

^_______^

YA SUDAHLAH

credit to my bff -  mamat who gives this song to me. it gives motivation for me to always move on whatever happen in my life. accept it and be positive. then you will find the way to handle the situation. lets listen~

by : Bondan Prakoso feat Fade to Black

title : Ya Sudahlah

ketika mimpimu yg begitu indah
tak pernah terwujud ya sudahlah
saat kau berlari mengejar anganmu
dan tak pernah sampai ya sudahlah
*
* apapun yg terjadi ku kan selalu ada untukmu
janganlah kau bersedih ’cos everything’s gonna be okay

yo satu dari sekian kemungkinan
kau jatuh tanpa ada harapan
saat itu raga kupersembahkan
bersama jiwa cita cinta dan harapan

kita sambung satu persatu sebab akibat
tapi tenanglah mata hati kita kan lihat
menuntun ke arah mata angin bahagia
kau dan aku tahu jalan selalu ada

juga ku tahu lagi problema kan terus menerjang
bagai deras ombak yang menabrak karang
namun ku tahu ku tahu kau mampu tuk tetap tenang
hadapi ini bersamaku hingga ajal datang

sempat kau berharap keramahan cinta
tak pernah kau dapat ya sudahlah
yeeah dengar ku bernyanyi lalalalalala
heyyeye yaya dedudedadedudedudidam
semua ini belum berakhir

repeat *

satukan langkah langkah yg beriring
genggam hati rangkul emosi
Genggamlah hatiku
satukan langkah kita

sama rasa tanpa pamrih
ini cinta across the sea
peluklah diriku terbanglah bersamaku
melayang jauh (come fly with me, baby)

ini aku dari ujung rambut menyusur jemari
sosok ini yang menerima kelemahan hati
yeah aku cinta kau (ini cinta kita)
cukup satu waktu yes (untuk satu cinta)

satu cinta ini akan tuntun jalanku
rapatkan jiwamu yo tenang di sisiku
rebahkan rasamu untuk yg ditunggu
bahagia hingga ujung waktu

repeat * [3x]

Source: http://liriklaguindonesia.net/b/bondan-prakoso-feat-fade-2-black/bondan-prakoso-feat-fade-2-black-ya-sudahlah/#ixzz1bCsDCRj6

so, whatever things that had happen, just accept it. don't became so fragile and easily influenced by the situation. move on and you will get what you want. 

p/s : lagu ni dh jd lagu feveret yg diulang byk-byk kali tanpa henti. and wish that someone could sing this song live for me. woah! ^_^

happy birthday friend~

happy birthday friend. eventhough u are not knowing, but i'm wishing u all the best and may God bless u in everything u are doing. even if all of us have our own life, but i'm hoping that u would not forget about us and our friendship. special for u~



p/s : malu den kalo ko baca. keh3.. tp mesej tulus ikhlas dari hati aku - takyah nak sombong sgt le. wek! :p

cabaran teh tarik! kau ade?

assalamualaikum... hey guys!

have u heard about that kind of challenge? actually it was a kind of competition that require the participant to know and have the skill on tarik-tarik teh. hehe... interesting right? haa....so my three beautiful and skilful friends a.k.a. NANA, YANA & SAL took part on the competition. they entered the competition as a group called Cadbury Crew. so sweet and sexy right. haha....

hey wait the minute! what about me? jeng jeng jeng.......................

because i'm special and limited, they choose me as their manager (haha tolong tengok je pon). we were very excited but because of time limit and other commitment as a student, my friends only having their discussion and practice one night before the day of the competition. everything was done on that particular time only. they are awesome! they start practicing at 12 midnight and only stop around 3 o'clock. MORNING already! it was 7 hours before the competition and it was the only time for them to have rest.

during the practice, my job was only looking and clicking the button on the laptop. so its like START-PAUSE-STOP. it was easy to be a manager lorh. only manage the music and technical side. haha. oke stop babling and talking nonsense. =_=

oke lets feel the day~

sal, yana and nana

they were preparing for the competition.

remembering the step. level of nervousness keep increasing.

unfortunately, there were no pictures during their turn. it was because we did not want to just pictured the performance but we want to record it so that we can see the whole performance again. so, i'm the one who recorded it. sampai lenguh-lenguh tangan weyh-pegang that big and heavy DSLR for about 4 minutes. alahai..... @_@

but sorry i cant upload the video here. hoho...

lets see other group's performance~

oppss! forgot to tell u lorh. only 4 groups participate in this competition. haha.

we did not know the result yet but praying that my friends will get the first place. amin.... even though there might be some crisis which i dont want to mention it here, but i really hope that they will win. the result will be announced today on the majlis penutupan pesta konvo. its tonight! 

but lets forget about that first. now its "snap-snap activity"! 

bright face after the performance~

style~

sponsored by dairy champ~

at last! its me~

with the contestants~

look at our back~

with A&W mascot~

with nisak, our coursemate~

oke my turn as photographer. sorry its blur~

haha tetibe kan. they are the referees for paintball competition. style lorh~

nana and cik anis. our college's president a.k.a our course mate also~

tired but happy face~

eating the burger. sponsored by A&W. makan dik jangan tak makan~

so after about 3 or 4 time went around the bukit ekspo, the tiredness push us to go back. we went back with the tiredness and also the hope on winning the cabaran teh tarik. for me, its a precious experience and i give my solute for my friends who were very brave and confident to participate in the contest. awesome girls!

  

oke i'm back!

hey! hey! hey! assalamualaikum!

suddenly, at this pagi bute time, i'm eager to remake my blog! woah hopefully its not like hangat2 tahi ayam oke. i really want to share.express.tell. my story but i'm not a good narrator when it come to face to face interactions. like story telling lah. so i 'm using this blog medium to tell others about what i feel and think. maybe from this method, i can share my story which might give some benefit to others. hehe..

but give me time to make my blog more attractive oke. sory i'm not expert in making a blog. wiwiwiwi...

p/s : trying to write in english in order to improve my english language. now its english generation! T_T 

but still mixing the languanges. hey i'm still learning lorh.... ^_^